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idk if men know this but

if you have to beg a girl into saying yes, it’s not consensual. if you make a girl feel bad for not wanting to have sex with you to the point where she says yes, it’s not consensual. if you have to trick a girl into saying yes, it’s not consensual.


so many fucking men in the comments saying “guess i haven’t ever had consensual sex then lol”
yeah. you haven’t, you rapist fucking creep ... See more
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Daily Reminder to self:Don’t even bother arguing with the other political side. All sources presented to them are “fake news”, & instantly dismissed. All good points you make are ignored. They’ll insult you with degrading names, but as soon as you fight back with an “idiot” or “asshole”, they take the moral high ground that you “went too far”.These are people that have no interest at critically looking at their own actions, words, and thoughts. They misrepresent everything they can to avoid doing this, with such gems as: “You are white and middle aged, therefore you are racist. That’s what liberals think!”They do not want to understand what racism even is. They just know it’s bad, and therefore don’t want to label themselves as it. (Not realizing that if it’s going by what people label themselves as… then sure, racism is over. By that logic, racism disappeared in the 1800s. I’ve heard KKK members actually declare they are “not racist”, go figure) They don’t want to understand what “privilege” is, or admit they have it… because they struggle financially, and have been screwed over by cops, before. Or that they know “Mexicans and Blacks who were a lot more privileged than” them, growing up. Not understanding that is not what systemic privilege is.It’s frustrating, and insulting… and even if they message you and say, “still love ya! (Smiley face)”… it’s almost more insulting that they are willing to ignore something so important.So don’t even bother… it’s going to go nowhere, and the best thing is to unfollow them, or block them outright. ... See more
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Not my normal M.O. for this blog… but I had to share.I’m the one in Red… and this may be some of my finest work.  I even got blocked!Afterwards, I received a lovely message from someone else on the thread, that said:  “I don’t know you from a hole in the wall.  But God fucking dammit you’re brilliant and I love you.”That made trolling this troll so worth it.  :) ... See more
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and for those interested, you can find the report HERE


Just in case any dudebros are unclear on what this means: it means that your buddy who totally just had some bitch trying to ruin his life by accusing him of rape…almost certainly actually did rape her.  
Just keep that in mind.



Yeah man, imagine that, bitches don’t be lying.


Can we put this into context? It means that 99.4% of rape allegations are true. 

It means that 99.4% of rape allegations are true.

When you read through and learn about those 0.6% who did make false allegations, there are some seriously important things to note. Firstly :

“Furthermore, the report shows that a significant number of these cases involved young, often vulnerable people. About half of the cases involved people aged 21 years old and under, and some involved people with mental health difficulties. In some cases, the person alleged to have made the false report had undoubtedly been the victim of some kind of offence (sic), even if not the one which he or she had reported.”

And then, when you get into the case studies you find things like a 14 year old girl sleeping with an 18 year old. When discovered, she claimed the sex was non-consensual in fear of her father’s disapproval, but investigation of texts and emails found that to be untrue. THAT SAID, the 18 year old was found to have a history of pursuing and seducing many very young girls, and once he was counseled he expressed not only regret over his actions, but the knowledge that he was purposefully picking vulnerable girls who could be easily manipulated into consent.
Another case was a married couple, where the wife claimed rape and domestic violence, so the husband was arrested and held. After some contact between the two while he was incarcerated, she went back to him and wanted the charges dropped. It’s okay because she still loves him. When the DA decided to keep going, she suddenly said that she made it up and he never raped her at all. Further counseling revealed that the allegations were true, but she didn’t want to be without him so she lied about the allegations being false.I don’t know about you, but this kind of sounds like classic domestic violence, and the kind of patterns you get into after living with an abuser.

The point I’m trying to make is that even though there are 0.6% false claims… when you break them down you find that there’s generally a lot of skeevy shit going on, and like the above quote, many of the alleged rape victims are actual victims of other abuses. For some of them, I’m guessing that an allegation of rape was the only way to bring enough attention to their abuse to finally get protection by law enforcement, or enough care from family to be freed from their abusive situations and moved somewhere safe. Some are mentally ill and have been taken advantage of, or are victims of statutory rape because they are not even remotely mature enough to truly consent to a sexual relationship with an adult. These cases aren’t just as simple as, “some bitch regretted sex and cried rape”.


And in cases of incest or when the rapist is in a position to retaliate, sometimes a victim will misidentify their attacker initially. Often when it appears a victim is protecting their attacker by refusing to name them, they then receive the anger and disapproval of the people around them; even though naming their attacker would put them in danger that they have not been protected from in the past. Point being, even that 0.6% usually have a more complex story than a revenge/regret motive ... See more
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Okay, here’s a piece of shit I’d like to draw your attention to.  I have no idea why this a-hole wrote to me, as I never “interacted” with this person.  The closest I came was seeing a “you might like this” post show up on my feed, which happened to be on their blog.  It was a post I actually liked, so I clicked “like”.  (Keep in mind, it was a non-sexual post)Now, if this fuckwaffle thinks that hitting a “like” is “interacting”, then they must think that someone looking in their direction is clearly wanting to fuck them.  That is a level of ego that makes me want to start swinging a crowbar.Second… this moronic shithead apparently thinks I’m 14.  I’m assuming they did look at my tumblr, which is geared more towards sex education and positivity… and thought, “oh they must be 14… because only 14 year olds write about the vasectomies they got.”  Because that’s a thing that all young men going through puberty do, right?  (And judging by my diplomas, I got my Master’s at age -1.  Hey, when you’re a genius, age ain’t even a number, am I right?)Also notice at the bottom… “this Tumblr can’t receive messages”.  So, they opened up their chat, frantically screamed their BS, and left so I couldn’t respond.  I went to their “ask” to inquire what the fuck was up, and return the politeness they extended to me, whilst correcting a few things.No reply.So, this shriveled up pile of dung is a coward.  Coupled with the condescending faux-parental comment at the end… we’re dealing with a good old fashioned schoolyard bully troll.Not so surprising, as there was one other post I saw with their name on it, a post that was on someone I’m following… and they were being an asshole there, too.So, since I have a modest amount of 7,000+ followers, why not make a public service announcement?  @vampire-rights-activist is a piece of shit.  Don’t be fooled by some of their posts, which you might think they’re a decent person…  heck, they might even think of themselves as such.  But they’re not.  They’re an egotistical shit-stain.  A trackmark on the tumblr community.Then maybe they’ll think twice before “interacting” with instant vitriol to  complete strangers they’ve never met. #piece_of_shit #bully #troll ... See more
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