CrownedKingOfControl in topic Domination
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Lust:
A ball gag, so large that her jaw began aching merely ten seconds after her Dom put it in place. She's worn this one before, and she has not forgotten how much more her jaw hurt when he finally removed it at the end of their scene. In a way, it reminded her of a good spanking. As much as it hurts in the moment, the true torment comes later from the dull, lingering pain that keeps reminding her of him and his ownership of her every passing second until they can be together again. Her experience also told her that the soreness she would feel in her jaw over the following few days would also feel much worse than this for one undeniable and embarrassing reason: right now, she was distracted. As much as the gag was stretching her lips apart, it was also promising to trigger her gag reflex unless she held her head in just the right way. Knowing this, her Dom was teasing and overstimulating different parts of her body, making it impossible to remain as still as she would have liked.
Gagging was the true torment for two reasons. Although it was not painful, the sound of her gagging turned her Dom on to the point that he would spank, slap, pinch, or bite a random part of her body. He was sadistic. The hornier he got, the harder he played. The harder he played, the more she would gag. The more she gagged, the hornier he felt. It was repetitive, cyclical. The only change to his sadist cycle was her masochism. The harder he played, the wetter she got. The wetter she got, the closer he was to seeing her dripping cunt and exchanging his abuse of her body for his dick in her tight slit.
The second reason was all her drooling. Although the ball gag managed to contain her words and screams, it seemed to decide that some moaning would be permitted, while an excessive amount of drool was essential. Neither she, nor her Dom, had an outstanding fascination with spit or drool, but it drove them both wild whenever she was being degraded. The humiliation of her drool dripping from her bottom lip, onto her breasts, and then the floor was a sight that threw them even deeper into their respective headspaces. In fact, if she was lucky, her Dom might ignore her drenched cunt in favor of wiping the drool from her tits and using it to lubricate her tight ass before forcing the length of his cock deep inside of her. But, it wasn't up to her, and what she wanted had no influence over his actions. He was going to use her as he pleased, and she was going to enjoy or endure whatever he had in store.
Love:
A good Dom understands the value and importance of effective communication, both in a relationship as well as in the bedroom. All healthy relationships require open and honest communication, but BDSM relationships demand it on a deeper and more intimate level. Transparency between a Dom and a sub is a liberating and magical thing.
Since communication is so important, a good Dom will make sure that he knows his submissive extremely well, and that he is highly aware of her likes, dislikes, boundaries, abilities, capabilities, soft limits, hard limits, and body language before silencing her with a gag.
In such a scenario, the Dom would be responsible for ensuring that his submissive is still capable of stopping the scene without access to her safewords. While there are different ways to achieve this, one such method is through the use of a "safe hum." After gagging his sub, the Dom will command his submissive to "Repeat after me." He will then make two or three short, distinctive humming sounds that she can repeat back to him while wearing the ball gag. After he explains to his submissive that humming this tune will act in exactly the same way as her safeword, he will then keep his ears open for this sound, making sure that he will be able to hear it, recognize it, and respond to it at any and every second during the scene.
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Lust:
A ball gag, so large that her jaw began aching merely ten seconds after her Dom put it in place. She's worn this one before, and she has not forgotten how much more her jaw hurt when he finally removed it at the end of their scene. In a way, it reminded her of a good spanking. As much as it hurts in the moment, the true torment comes later from the dull, lingering pain that keeps reminding her of him and his ownership of her every passing second until they can be together again. Her experience also told her that the soreness she would feel in her jaw over the following few days would also feel much worse than this for one undeniable and embarrassing reason: right now, she was distracted. As much as the gag was stretching her lips apart, it was also promising to trigger her gag reflex unless she held her head in just the right way. Knowing this, her Dom was teasing and overstimulating different parts of her body, making it impossible to remain as still as she would have liked.
Gagging was the true torment for two reasons. Although it was not painful, the sound of her gagging turned her Dom on to the point that he would spank, slap, pinch, or bite a random part of her body. He was sadistic. The hornier he got, the harder he played. The harder he played, the more she would gag. The more she gagged, the hornier he felt. It was repetitive, cyclical. The only change to his sadist cycle was her masochism. The harder he played, the wetter she got. The wetter she got, the closer he was to seeing her dripping cunt and exchanging his abuse of her body for his dick in her tight slit.
The second reason was all her drooling. Although the ball gag managed to contain her words and screams, it seemed to decide that some moaning would be permitted, while an excessive amount of drool was essential. Neither she, nor her Dom, had an outstanding fascination with spit or drool, but it drove them both wild whenever she was being degraded. The humiliation of her drool dripping from her bottom lip, onto her breasts, and then the floor was a sight that threw them even deeper into their respective headspaces. In fact, if she was lucky, her Dom might ignore her drenched cunt in favor of wiping the drool from her tits and using it to lubricate her tight ass before forcing the length of his cock deep inside of her. But, it wasn't up to her, and what she wanted had no influence over his actions. He was going to use her as he pleased, and she was going to enjoy or endure whatever he had in store.
Love:
A good Dom understands the value and importance of effective communication, both in a relationship as well as in the bedroom. All healthy relationships require open and honest communication, but BDSM relationships demand it on a deeper and more intimate level. Transparency between a Dom and a sub is a liberating and magical thing.
Since communication is so important, a good Dom will make sure that he knows his submissive extremely well, and that he is highly aware of her likes, dislikes, boundaries, abilities, capabilities, soft limits, hard limits, and body language before silencing her with a gag.
In such a scenario, the Dom would be responsible for ensuring that his submissive is still capable of stopping the scene without access to her safewords. While there are different ways to achieve this, one such method is through the use of a "safe hum." After gagging his sub, the Dom will command his submissive to "Repeat after me." He will then make two or three short, distinctive humming sounds that she can repeat back to him while wearing the ball gag. After he explains to his submissive that humming this tune will act in exactly the same way as her safeword, he will then keep his ears open for this sound, making sure that he will be able to hear it, recognize it, and respond to it at any and every second during the scene.
