Ezada in topic Orgasm control OC · Mistressezada.com
People often ask Me about the motivation behind keeping men in constant chastity and exercising rigid orgasm control. Whether this something I do to punish My slaves. Well it is not, even if the slaves might perceive it as such. To exercise power over the male, also over their sexual cravings, this is nothing but a natural right for Me as their Mistress. In enjoy it to see the slave become desperate in his longing; I relish the agony in his eyes, just when I once again kill his desperate hope for a release that I had so wickedly built up before in treacherous tenderness.
The male behaviour is just so much guided by his hormones, that’s why the key of the chastity devices padlock is the true remote control of the male brain and the symbol of the Female reign over it at the same time. By turning in his sexuality into My prison he surrenders his body and mind to Me. Control his cock, and you control his brain and thus the whole guy. Once put into chastity, he will wince at My feet in agony. It is as simple as that.
Keeping him in chastity does not mean that I will not let him cum at all. his ejaculation from time to time is necessary for his health and even more so to constantly remind him that the control over what he so strongly desires now lies in My delicate hands only. I might let them cum for various reasons, may it be for My amusement, for My satisfaction, or just as a necessary means to enslave them even more, but the male will never be able to earn it. No man is entitled for such reward as a slave. he has to understand that between Me and him that there is not that relationship of “I give something to receive another thing in return” that has become the foundation of the Western society. This is a foundation of egocentric selfishness and I believe that it is fundamentally wrong. The devotion, the service, the obedience of the true slave is not based on expecting something in return. My slaves very well know that they cannot create any obligation on My side. Never, no matter what they do, regardless of how perfect and comprehensive their service might be. Their giving is unidirectional. I do not owe them anything. There is no synallagma between U/us. What they receive from Me, they receive as a gift.
The true slave is the one who deeply understands that basic truth. he is mine, plaything of My lust, victim of My despotism. Nothing else. And the chastity cage is the best symbol to show that status to the world and engrave it deep into his brain.
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The male behaviour is just so much guided by his hormones, that’s why the key of the chastity devices padlock is the true remote control of the male brain and the symbol of the Female reign over it at the same time. By turning in his sexuality into My prison he surrenders his body and mind to Me. Control his cock, and you control his brain and thus the whole guy. Once put into chastity, he will wince at My feet in agony. It is as simple as that.
Keeping him in chastity does not mean that I will not let him cum at all. his ejaculation from time to time is necessary for his health and even more so to constantly remind him that the control over what he so strongly desires now lies in My delicate hands only. I might let them cum for various reasons, may it be for My amusement, for My satisfaction, or just as a necessary means to enslave them even more, but the male will never be able to earn it. No man is entitled for such reward as a slave. he has to understand that between Me and him that there is not that relationship of “I give something to receive another thing in return” that has become the foundation of the Western society. This is a foundation of egocentric selfishness and I believe that it is fundamentally wrong. The devotion, the service, the obedience of the true slave is not based on expecting something in return. My slaves very well know that they cannot create any obligation on My side. Never, no matter what they do, regardless of how perfect and comprehensive their service might be. Their giving is unidirectional. I do not owe them anything. There is no synallagma between U/us. What they receive from Me, they receive as a gift.
The true slave is the one who deeply understands that basic truth. he is mine, plaything of My lust, victim of My despotism. Nothing else. And the chastity cage is the best symbol to show that status to the world and engrave it deep into his brain.
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