Kimthemilf in topic MILF
I get asked this a lot “how did I become a hotwife?” or “how do I get my wife into it?”.
My sex life with my husband has always been amazing and we are both very adventurous but this lifestyle took us both by surprise.
We were staying in a hotel for the evening as we had been to watch a band, it was a ground floor room with a large, nearly floor to ceiling bay window. We left early for the gig when it was still daylight and by the time we had got home it was very late and dark outside. I don’t know if we knew the curtains were still open and with the lights on, our room was like looking into a fish bowl from the outside, or if, in the heat of passion we just didn’t care but we started undressing each other and it was during a position change to my favourite (doggy) that I noticed a guy stood outside watching. I screamed out and we both shit ourselves with my husband running towards the window to close the curtains as quick as he could.
We laughed about it and led on the bed in a mix of shock and childish giggling at the eye full this chap must have got. As the jokes subsided we got to chatting and I said “shall I see if he’s still there” when I poked my head around the curtain I could see him sat on a wall at the far side of the road messing with his phone. He looked up and saw me and then gave me a wave and made a clapping signal with his hands as if to say “well done”. I laughed and gestured a “you’re welcome”!
I turned to my husband and told him what he had done and we both laughed. It was strange as what was initially pretty creepy and weird turned into sexy as the guy had put me at ease with his body language, he didn’t seem like a weirdo, more of a lucky bystander making the most of an opportunity he’d happened across. “He seems alright you know” I said to my husband, “what are you saying” he replied “um maybe I should give him a bit of a show”, I don’t know if was the yager we had drunk that evening or what, but for some unknown reason we agreed that it was a good idea.
I opened one side of the curtain and stepped half of my naked body out and waved him over. He walked up to the window with his hands in his pockets and I sat down on the floor and spread my legs for him.
He showed how happy he was with more hand gestures and as my confidence grew my inhibitions left. It wasn’t long before I was stood in the window giving the world of passers by a full view of me bent over spreading myself.
It only lasted about ten minutes but both myself and my husband were really turned on by this chance encounter. The sex afterwards was incredible and it led to more discussion over the next few months about how we might replicate the situation. Sadly trying to do that was pretty uneventful with a few Skype calls of people watching us until we decided that was a lost cause and we should take the plunge and visit a swingers club.
We booked a date and time and off we went. We put very strict rules on each other at first but we had a great night and met some brilliant people who explained lots more about the lifestyle and dispelled a lot of fears. Over the next seven years we have slowly relaxed those rules and introduced new things to really see what we both like and what turns us on.
The more we explore sex the better it becomes and the stronger our relationship is. People outside of that don’t understand and society has brainwashed us into thinking that monogamy is the normal and if you don’t practice a monogamous relationship then you are somehow wrong or not in love. This could not be further from the truth.
So I guess what I’m saying is, I don’t have the answers to those questions, but be honest, be open, listen and learn to each other but don’t be afraid to push the boundaries a little bit at a time and have fun, you only get one go at this life.
Right im off to the shops have a lovely day everyone and if you happen to walk past me whilst im bending to pick something up from the bottom of the aisle, dont be afraid to give my bum a little squeeze as you walk past.
My sex life with my husband has always been amazing and we are both very adventurous but this lifestyle took us both by surprise.
We were staying in a hotel for the evening as we had been to watch a band, it was a ground floor room with a large, nearly floor to ceiling bay window. We left early for the gig when it was still daylight and by the time we had got home it was very late and dark outside. I don’t know if we knew the curtains were still open and with the lights on, our room was like looking into a fish bowl from the outside, or if, in the heat of passion we just didn’t care but we started undressing each other and it was during a position change to my favourite (doggy) that I noticed a guy stood outside watching. I screamed out and we both shit ourselves with my husband running towards the window to close the curtains as quick as he could.
We laughed about it and led on the bed in a mix of shock and childish giggling at the eye full this chap must have got. As the jokes subsided we got to chatting and I said “shall I see if he’s still there” when I poked my head around the curtain I could see him sat on a wall at the far side of the road messing with his phone. He looked up and saw me and then gave me a wave and made a clapping signal with his hands as if to say “well done”. I laughed and gestured a “you’re welcome”!
I turned to my husband and told him what he had done and we both laughed. It was strange as what was initially pretty creepy and weird turned into sexy as the guy had put me at ease with his body language, he didn’t seem like a weirdo, more of a lucky bystander making the most of an opportunity he’d happened across. “He seems alright you know” I said to my husband, “what are you saying” he replied “um maybe I should give him a bit of a show”, I don’t know if was the yager we had drunk that evening or what, but for some unknown reason we agreed that it was a good idea.
I opened one side of the curtain and stepped half of my naked body out and waved him over. He walked up to the window with his hands in his pockets and I sat down on the floor and spread my legs for him.
He showed how happy he was with more hand gestures and as my confidence grew my inhibitions left. It wasn’t long before I was stood in the window giving the world of passers by a full view of me bent over spreading myself.
It only lasted about ten minutes but both myself and my husband were really turned on by this chance encounter. The sex afterwards was incredible and it led to more discussion over the next few months about how we might replicate the situation. Sadly trying to do that was pretty uneventful with a few Skype calls of people watching us until we decided that was a lost cause and we should take the plunge and visit a swingers club.
We booked a date and time and off we went. We put very strict rules on each other at first but we had a great night and met some brilliant people who explained lots more about the lifestyle and dispelled a lot of fears. Over the next seven years we have slowly relaxed those rules and introduced new things to really see what we both like and what turns us on.
The more we explore sex the better it becomes and the stronger our relationship is. People outside of that don’t understand and society has brainwashed us into thinking that monogamy is the normal and if you don’t practice a monogamous relationship then you are somehow wrong or not in love. This could not be further from the truth.
So I guess what I’m saying is, I don’t have the answers to those questions, but be honest, be open, listen and learn to each other but don’t be afraid to push the boundaries a little bit at a time and have fun, you only get one go at this life.
Right im off to the shops have a lovely day everyone and if you happen to walk past me whilst im bending to pick something up from the bottom of the aisle, dont be afraid to give my bum a little squeeze as you walk past.