Here's the thing nobody wants to talk about in all of this hotwife talk: nobody, not my husband, not anyone gives me "permission" to do anything! I fuck who I want, when I want, how I want, where I want and as many times as I want. I DO NOT HUMILIATE MY STAG HUBBY. He has chosen of his own free will to allow me to command him and he obeys me faithfully. He knows full well what his rewards are and he loves it. I don't view his desires as anything but that. We do not disrespect each other, and we certainly NEVER lie either, simply stated there is no need. We do not confuse sex with love. Open communication is the key to our happiness. It's amazing to me how many people try to put a label on our relationship. It is ours and our business. If anybody wants true marital blis, try opening up to your partner about your desires. You may be very surprised how receptive they are. If not, at least you'll know, and you can either adapt or move on.