I do have a few rituals that help me get in touch with my desires. One of my favorites is to take a long, hot bath with some lavender-scented candles and some soothing music. I find that just taking a moment to relax and unwind helps me to really tune in to my desires and really focus on what I want and need. Another ritual I enjoy is reading some erotic literature or watching a sensual movie. It really helps to get my mind in the right place and really visualize the experience I want to have.
